DATING HIGH VALUE BY BECOMING HIGH VALUE
Looking for the best time to meet High Value Individuals and get them to date you?
Read up I am about to expose their secrets to you!
It’s not what you think…
In Life, people attract who they are in Life.
Not who or want they want to be.
So in order to attract the person that you want in life, you have to become the person capable of doing so.
In this instance, we are talking about high value individuals, the cream of the cream, top of the crop.
What is a HIGH VALUE individual?
A high value individual is a person that is not easy assessable or obtainable to the masses or most people. They are at the top of their fields and everyone wants to have a piece of them. They have things that most people dream of having. Being in amazing freaking shape, fit and jacked or making millions of dollars a year being able to do whatever they want in life. They are smart, independent and driven to achieve their goals in life and not willing to sacrifice a little for their purpose.
They are not doing what everyone else is doing to be in relationships.
High Value individuals can be found all over the place, but they play Life outside of the common rules.
Most of them do not work a normal 9-5 job. They are able to travel all over the world at any time, and set their own rules, routines and schedules for everything they do in life.
To become one they focus on the biggest three things in their LIFE. Their Health, Wealth and Relationships with others. With all that in place they are living in the world of value.
Since High Value people do not do what most people do day to day meeting them in your life is going to be completely rare. They often go to bed early and do not waste their nights away drinking, partying at the club or doing unnecessary things at night. They are focused and driven ready to wake up early in the morning to work on themselves and what they want to build for this world.
Many High Value Individuals possess a few strengths in their life. One of which is MENTAL STRENGTH, they are willing to do things that most people are unwilling to do without a guide or someone to push them. Their strength comes from within.
So…. Where do you Meet these Individuals?
Let’s be honest here and tell you that a person that is doing what every other guy is doing in this world will not attract high value individuals. Most girls do not like to be taken out on romantic dinners or watch to be hit on at the club because that is what most people do to attract girls.
As a Man looking for a High Value Women, the most ideal time to meet her will be at brunch in the middle of the day.
As a Man capable of having brunch during the middle of the day then in a girls mind she is probably thinking these 3 things:
“What does this guy do for work?”
“How is he able to have brunch in the middle of the day”
“He’s special from the rest of the people”
Boom! You’ve already implanted a seed in her mind having her think about you.
A girl never does anything alone; you go to the restroom and see a group of 4 or 5 females that go with her. She must feel safe and protected at all times. So at brunch she is either:
On a Date
With her Girlfriends
With her family
By her thinking about you and somehow getting more of their attention being in the room. The conversation will naturally gravitate towards you. Going up to their table and talking to them and then going to have your meal will be a way in. Let the girl decide if she wants you and she will become forever yours.
The Gym: The gym is full of people who are constantly evolving themselves and making themselves one step closer to their destination in life.
Building an Amazing Body makes you feel good and brings inspirations to the other people around you!
It makes you feel good, and as you feel good, doing more and more things that feel good will bring you one step closer to become higher in value.
Subtle act more confident, the sense of accomplishment after finishing a morning workout will allow for more and more achievements to get done during the day.
Remember the more a Person is able to pollute the mind the more he or she will find attraction in you!
Why?
There is an effect called the Exposure Effect in Psychology where People want 2 things in Life.
They want things of Freedom and Security
They want things of Value and Scarcity
A person who is constantly exposing himself or giving away their time and energy freely to people is lower on the value scale. They are very free and easy. Very assessable and common making them feel safe and secure.
On the Other Hand:
A person who is hard to get a hold of and has things in life will be drawn to things that people do not do will find themselves being chased after.
So the Question of the day is…
Are you doing what everyone else is doing in life or are you doing things that make you stand out?
Most people do Dinners at night because it’s after work or meet girls at a club or on the weekend like everyone else.
The other side of this is where Guys who work at Coffee Shops during the day or are able to have Brunch on a Thursday Morning will have more of an advantage in the dating pool.
A person will always attract who they are in life
Value works the same way in the world
Things that are rarer to get take more time and energy and effort to get there.
How Do I Become High Value?
Becoming high value means standing out from the crowd. It means doing what others will consider hard and continue to push through in the time of pain and trial.
Becoming Fit and Strong: Going to the Gym with the intention of getting stronger each and everyday. Getting Fit is something that doesn’t just happen accidentally. It takes time effort and discipline. It is the pure definition of a high value activity that leads to attention going up. It brings people attention and focus, their eyes onto you as you take up more space in the room.
Educating oneself: Go to your local bookstore or library and read 1-2 book a month on a specific topic. By the end of 3 month you will have enough knowledge on that one topic than 99% of the population. 99% of people in the world read about 1-2 books a year. If you set a goal of reading 15 minutes a day, everyday for an entire year. You will mostly finish 40-50 books which is what most high figure entrepreneurs do.
Build a Life around what You love to do: What you love to do in this life can be anything. Building a Life around that and getting paid will allow you to live your truest version of yourself. There has been so much pushing of the schooling system in our dailies lives to where there feels like no way out. A safety crutch to depend on or lean on, but when you break away from that. It feels like Freedom. You may not know what tomorrow holds, but you will have freedom from the prisons that hinder the creativity to flow.
