SETTING BOUNDARIES TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
The saying goes, we attract who we are not what we want in life. So in order to attract what you want in life that means that you have to change yourself. As a person changes themselves in life their external world and also changes. Let the inner world be a reflection of the outer world. In life and relationships, it’s all about boundaries and what a person gets in life is what they tolerate. If you are unhappy with your relationships, figure out what is it that you are tolerating in your own life and change that. The world changes as soon as a person starts changing themselves.
Setting Boundaries
A person who knows what they want in life will have it happen to them. Imagine life like a puzzle or maze, a relationship is the same way. How does a person navigate in getting a relationship if they do not know what they want in life? Life is all about setting perimeters and people helping guide you on the journey of what you want in life. Life is what you tolerate in life and life is also a reflection of who you are as a person. If you are a person that constantly smokes and drinks and parties late at night that will mostly be the people that you meet in life while the other side is a person that sleeps early, goes to the gym to take care of their health and wakes up early. Life then becomes polar opposite because you will meet completely two sides of the coin.
Like will always attract like
Setting boundaries comes from knowing yourself and what you look for in a relationship with the other person. Making a list of what you want in a person and what you don’t want is the most ideal in the World / God bringing you want you are looking for in life. Our brains are able to filter out all the subconscious noise and help you dial into what you are looking for. 90% of life is subconscious and 10% of life is conscious. It comes from making sure that you are consciously setting good intention on what you are looking for and let the other 90% of life bring you towards what you desire.
What You Desire, Desires You
What you desire in life will also desire you as long as you get rid of the limiting beliefs that you hold on towards. This world is purely a reflection of your inner world and the relationships in it. As you can change your inner world and the beliefs associated with it, then the external world will change along with it. If you like smart girls then you must be smart. Thinking yourself as a smart person will lead you into a direction of what smart individuals do. What you can think of yourself is what you can become in life. Let life guide you through the challenges and struggles into bring you what you want. Sometimes it takes time to get to where you want in life because of the lessons, challenges, and journey along the way that will help teach you certain things to learn to become the person you must be to attract the people that you want to attract in your life.
Focus on Building Yourself
As you focus on building yourself or find love in what you love to do then people will alway follow and a group will come in. As a person who is constantly building their life and their garden the people will come in naturally rather than you constantly chasing and chasing these things. The things that people chase will run away while if you focus on yourself and what you want in this life people will naturally come in to follow and be a part of the experience and journey. Always put the attention and focus on yourself and let things naturally come to you.
